Inaugural Post

Finally getting it done.  This month marks so many anniversaries. What would have been my 10 year wedding anniversary, what is the 6 year transplant anniversary, my second anniversary of my break up...and of course my birthday.

Shortly after the demise of my relationship, I began composing this "book" chronicling my process. What I was doing, how I was doing, etc.

Seeing as my break up was weeks before my 30th birthday, it seemed as if my social circle was all experiencing a flux and break ups were occurring left and right.

And soon what began as little memos, became shared emails...until now after enough nudging I have decided to take it public...see if I can offer any guidance or insight to those of you who are starting the process or perhaps find yourself caught in a step in the process.

So, born of one break-up, and fueled with information from many break-ups it became clear that there was a real necessity of having guidelines and following said guidelines through the process of breaking apart. Because in the end, you are not breaking up...there is nothing to break up. You are breaking apart. And it is how you hold it together and come out in the end that matters.